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Almost Falling Into Pieces


Now you almost made me fall for you or should I say I think I’m Falling for you. Bakit kaya mapaglaro si kupido? Kong saan ka masasaktan doon ka nya talaga pinipilit at doon nya papanain ang puso mo. Bakit hindi ka panain sa taong hindi ka masasaktan, sa taong alam mong masaya rin para sa’yo
Every night I go to sleep, I always wish that I will wake up beside you. Every morning I ask the heavens and wish if I can give you morning kisses and hug you while you are sleeping. Oh! Dear cupid this rainy night makes me feel like I’m almost losing hope. I just can’t imagine the pain of telling you how much I Like/Love you. Thinking about the words of rejection coming from your lips is like a lock without a key, I don’t know how to free myself from the pain of your words. Hindi ko talaga gusto ang pag ulan habang nag iisa. Ulan sa gabi na nagdadala sa akin nang kalungkutan at takot.

I’ve been in love a lot of times, I’ve been waiting this day to tell you that you are the reason why I’m inspired to wake up every day uhhmm.. Okay maybe you are the only reason why I love to sleep and maybe you are the reason of my beautiful dreams but I’m really sorry if I fell in love to you. Sorry if this is my way of expressing my admiration for you. No words can express how much I like having long conversation with you, sipping my favorite coffee while staring in your eyes and hoping that someday, just someday those little beautiful eyes will fall for me too. 

The heat of the summer sun is solvable like your smile, smiles that I wish for me. There on the beach watching the glittering water and the questionable waves tossed the delicate fine sand. I wish I saw your shadow under the bright moon, your shadows dancing in every rushing cold air. I wish that I could see a future with you; my dream is to see you every night before going to sleep, next to the memorable cold night.

Why love is so sweet, why love is painful and why I still love you even knowing that I’m completely vulnerable. I’m always asking Why? why I always pretend that it’s okay if you’re not going to return the love that I have for you. Why am I sad even I can easily reach you? Why can’t it be? Why can’t I call you mine? Why the word “IF” is always there in the middle of my lovely questions? It’s okay for me to love you from a far? To kiss you in my vivid dreams? Why your loving heart is too elusive for me?

I want to offer my soul and my heart to mend your broken heart. Let me love you to ease your pain and let me kiss you to the night of summer, kissing your lips with the wind of chances. I want you to feel my sincere love.

Oh Mister Cupid thank you for not allowing myself to be broke again, I thought I almost fall in to pieces. You and your flowering words help me to accept the fact that there’s no chance at all. That there’s no You and Me in this beautiful world of called love, but there’s YOU and ME in the new bridge of friendship. Letting you out in my dreams are not an easy task to do but letting you out in my heart uhmmm let me think about that.
Lastly please stop making my heart skip a bit every time I’m with you?
-Fin

Lessons learned from my Ex(es) 


*Forgiveness.

If you hurt someone from the past, Please forgive your self. If you hurt, Please try to understand. Intindihin mo s’ya at patawarin this is not about Him/Her, Magptawad ka kahit ikaw ang nasaktan. Dahil ang unang magpatawad ang siyang unang nagiging masaya. If you hold those grudges you will never be happy in your life. Forgiveness is enough and please don’t try to be part of His/Her life again. Never again. 

*Don’t care too much.



It is okay to care someone from your past but don’t let your self in pain again. Okay lang naman na mag alala ka pero mag iingat ka dahil magkaiba ang pag aalala sa kaibigan kaysa pag alala dahil mahal mo pa s’ya. Never ever allow your self to care too much to the point that theres nothing left from you, because you wouldn’t know if He/She care the way that you do.  

*How are you is enough.

 
If you are trying to be friend/s again to your ex please be mindful that “How are you” is better than “I love you”. Don’t try to be in His/Her life again. Yes! Second chances is still in the topic but remember He/She is not the same person as before. Lot of changes and theres a lot of painful memories that you need to re-consider. Again don’t be fool from your own mistakes. 

*I’m okay.



You should be okay always. Wear better and love better. H’wag mong ipakita na naging miserable ang buhay mo pagkatapos nya. Magmumukha ka lang kawawa. Show to His/Her that you get better and better after the break up. You are now independent from your own choices. You are better to His/Her present. Let the world realize that you are worthy enough. You are in your own world after living together in a world of lies. 

*Say Thank you.

Have courage to say thank you from your past. You’ve learned a lot. Those learnings are the reasons of a new version of you. You should never do the same mistakes again. You are wise and independent. Now you know how to play a game. You know what kind of cards that you need to show. Be thankful to His/Her because your past relationship/s is one of the biggest lessons of your life. We commit mistakes, always. Hating them is not always the answer to move on. That’s not the right thing to do. Hating someone is a waste of time in a things that you will never have again. 

H’wag kang mapagod at matakot magmahal muli. Dahil ang katapusan ng lahat nang bagay ay may simula. Hindi natatapos ang pag ikot ng mundo sa isang sakit o pagkakamali na nagawa mo. Nasasaktan tayo dahil hindi mo na mababalik ang dati. Umiiyak tayo hindi dahil sa sakit na naranasan natin kundi dahil sa mga masasayang pangyayari noong nagpapakatanga ka pa sa kanya. Hindi mali ang magmahal lalong hindi mali ang mahalin s’ya, ang tanging mali lang ay ang napaniwala ka nya na mahal ka at ikaw lang at wala ng iba pa.

xoxo

Forgiveness- The past does not dictate the future unless you let it.


Entering a year full of blessings is a sign that I know, I totally forgive the past. It’s been 2 years and a month when we both decided to become strangers. As years gone by, I heard a lot of stories about you. To be honest, every-time that I had a chance to hear stories about you, the memories from the past repeatedly runs in my mind. The pain, the tears that I’ve shed, and the day that you left. 

Today, we are in a different time. All wounds were Healed already. We learned how to forgive, we learn to embrace each other and we accept the challenge to smile together. The true happiness will come when you let go of the hurt that’s holding you back. We both matured now….I guess? 

I am thankful now that I know we all move on from the past. Masaya pala iyong nakikita mo ang mga mali mo at pagkakamali nila na tinatawanan nyo na lang. Wala  mangyayari kong panghahawakan parin natin hanggang ngayon ang galit ng nakaraan. 

To be honest even though I’m the one who initiated this moment, I’ve got butterflies in my stomach. I have a cold sweat running on my head down to my neck. My heart beats fast because I don’t know what’s happening at this moment. Iyong kaba na hindi mo pwedeng ipahalata sa kanila. Na akala mo ngayon lang ‘yong kahapon. 

Masaya ang pagkikita puno nang kwentuhan ng kahapon at mga nakalipas na nagbigay sa amin ng leksyon. Masarap magpatawad lalo na kong ang pagpapatawad ay bukal sa loob mo at bukal mong tinanggap na walang halong panghihinayang. Ngayon haharapin natin ang bagong kabanata nang ating buhay. Siguro hindi natin alam kong maibabalik pa natin ang dati, Iyong dati na tayo, kayo na sabay na nangangarap sa bawat bukas na darating. Bahala na ang tadhana ang magtakda kong sa huli ay maari pang mangyari ang mga bagay na naudlot ng panahon. Hindi man Fairy tale ang kwento natin pero pra syang kwento na pwede nating ihalintulad dito, Happily ever after.

Anger makes you smaller, while forgiveness forces you to grow beyond what you were.”

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1. Iwasang maglike sa mismong status at picture. Ilike lang yung mismong reply niya sa mga comment para solo mo ang notification.

2. Kapag nagpost siya ng picture, wag agad ilike. Baka matabunan lang ng ibang likers kapag nakisabay ka. Pakalmahin at pahupain ang sitwasyon. Wag sa peak season. Magcomment 4 hours after.

3. Wag basta ‘Hi’ o ‘hello’ lang. Dapat, “Hi koya. Alam ko mapapansinin mo din ako someday. :D” Lagyan ng ‘someday’ para hindi magmukhang atat.

4. Kapag magfflood likes sa profile niya, palima-lima muna. Wag kang ganid. Bukas naman yung iba para may tira pa. Tandaan, ang kalandian binubudget din.

5. Pero kung gusto mong magpakawalwal sa paglilike dahil sa tindi ng emosyong nadarama mo, dun ka sa instagram feed niya. Mas safe dun kasi walang instagram yung mga tiyahin mo. Walang magjujudge sa’yo na malandi ka…kasi medyo tago.

6. Don’t ever chat like, “Hi. Pwede pong makipagkaibigan?” Ano yun parang nagsosolicite lang sabay abot ng sobre tapos friends na agad? Ang friendship pinag-eefortan yan hindi basta tinatanong lang.

7. Ingatan ang dangal when stalking sa profile niya. Baka aksidente mong ma-like yung picture niyang bakat ang utong ‘posted 4 years ago’ pa. Kalma lang when scrolling.

8. Kapag nagpost siya ng joke, wag “haha” lang. Mukhang napipilitan. Dapat “HAHAHAHAHAHALaplapi­nMoKoHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!­!!!” Gets na niya yun.

9. I-compliment mo na lang yung bagong bili niyang jacket hindi yung puro ka“Musta?”. Isang ice-cold na “Okay lang.” ang isasagot niya. Wala pa siyang balak mag-open up agad sa’yo tungkol sa nawawala nilang tabo.

10. Kapag nagpost siya ng selfie na kumakain o may hawak na pagkain, wag na wag magcomment ng ‘Sarap naman’. Then wala pang tatlong minuto, sabay PM din ng, ‘Sarrrrap naman.’ Wag kame! Alam ng lahat na hindi pagkain yung tinutukoy mo. ‘

11. Wag banatan ng comment na, “Uwi ka na babe. Di na ‘ko galit.” Hindi yan nakakalaki ng dede. Wala siyang pake kung galit ka. Uuwi siya kung kelan niya gusto.

12. Hindi porket nagreply lang sa chat mo, yayayain mo na agad lumabas para magkape. Baka isipin niya nagnenetworking ka. Ang uso ngayon, net-twerking.

13. Wag maging desperada when stalking. Wag mong hayaan ang sarili mong makarating sa proflie niya until the date he started joining FB. Hindi yan pantawid-gutom. Magsaing ka muna.

14. Kapag ginawa mo na ang lahat pero dedma pa din, ichat siya sa huling pagkakataon. Wala kang kailangang sabihin. Wala kang kailangang ipaliwanag. Pakyuhan mo sabay unfriend

 

Disclaimer: Hindi po sa akin galing yan nabasa ko lang. Originaly posted sa Facebook share ko lang sa inyo.